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子女的自由

Derek Sivers 在自己的 About 页面 里对于子女的看法让我深感认同:

I’m very attached to my kid, but I don’t expect him to be attached to me. I don’t want him to feel more tied to some people than others. I hope he ventures out into the world, makes new bonds, and feels no obligation to me. He doesn’t owe me anything. His life is his own. He didn’t ask to be born, and has no debts.

我非常依恋我儿子,但不希望他依恋我。我不希望他依赖特定的人。我希望他出去冒险,结识新朋友,不用觉得对我有义务。他不欠我什么。他掌控他的生命,他并没有要求被生下来,他不欠任何人。

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